【You get Lacan`s point.Fantasies have to be unrealistic because the moment,the second that you get what you seek,you don`t,you can`t want it any more.In order to continue to exist ,desire must have its objects perpetually absent.拉康哲学的重点,幻想必须超越现实,因为在幻想成真的那一刻,你就不想再幻想它了。为了继续幻想,你的欲望必须永远无法实现】耶稣说:一粒麦子若不落在地里死了、就不能结出百倍果实;死亡、永远是殉道者送给梦想的礼物